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Tuesday, December 27, 2022
To Whom It May Concern: An Open Letter to All
The ending of a year is a contemplative time for me. Thinking about the past year leads to thoughts of what I want to change and improve upon in the coming year. This is a letter I have wanted to write for a while and one which I wish someone would have shared with my first year teacher self and continue to share with other music educators. I hope it encourages you.
To Whom It May Concern:
I don't teach music. I teach children music. There is a big difference in what and who is centered in those two sentences.
Teaching music begins not with the teaching of music concepts and skills, but with focusing on WHO we teach. Children first. That means that for most of us who teach elementary music, there is a steep learning curve in understanding the wide range of developmental ages and stages we teach. In a single classroom, we have at least five, and often MANY more various stages of typical childhood development. Add to that neurodivergence, medical and cognitive differences, social and emotional variances, and cultural and personality differences and there is much to be learned.
We have a responsibility as music teachers who teach a high quality music curriculum; a responsibility that allows all students to experience music from people around the world without bias. High quality music should not include music that is problematic, questionable, or racist. Do your research and don't rely on others to do it for you. Google is free and available for all. Music history, musicians, and music created by various identities, religions, and genders will be used in our classrooms. Identity formation is a critical aspect of social development in children as they develop sense of self, understanding, belonging, and acceptance. The idea that classroom curriculum should serve as "windows and mirrors" for children has been around for over 30 years - first coined by educator Emily Styles in 1988. Approaching children's music and music education through the lens of windows, mirrors, and sliding glass doors prioritizes diversity, honors cultural experiences, and promotes empathy and understanding. It also helps all children to feel included and a part OF, not apart from, as they see themselves in the music and musical experiences.
Our greatest responsibility is not in data collection, meetings, trainings, and PD's that are unnecessary, irrelevant, or do not promote the advancement of our craft and art. Our greatest responsibility is to help each child become the best version of themselves which means everything we do should be steeped in doing what is best for children, not adults. Children are at their best when they feel seen and loved. It isn't always easy to love and even like every child and the "prickly pears" and "frequent fliers" can be downright difficult. It isn't always easy to connect and be relational with every child. The reality is we sometimes struggle to find just one way to connect with a child. But to that child who finally feels seen it means the world. Find the one thing.
There are many outside forces demanding teachers time, talents, and energy. Music teachers don't stop being musicians or music teachers at 3:45 when they are "off the clock." Music teachers often teach private lessons or have secondary jobs directing ensembles or playing or singing in adult music ensembles. We often listen to music passively while wondering how to create a lesson to go with it. We have families and lives outside of school. Boundaries are necessary - hold to them and live your life. Stop comparing yourself to others and start advocating for yourself. Period. Do the next best thing for you.
Finally, be kind. To yourself, your fellow teachers, to your students, and to strangers. A kind word or gesture goes a long way in this filtered world where "likes" and "followers" dominate.
With much affection,
Thursday, August 25, 2022
Words of Experience
Well, I had hoped to not get in the weeds of life and post almost every day since my last post but that didn't work out! 😂 Oh well.. best laid plans!
Here is the rest of the advice I had hoped to post - see previous post for the first two.
Saturday, August 13, 2022
New School Year Words of Experience
I was about to write, "words of wisdom" in the post title, but I don't feel that is correct as I am certainly not wise, simply experienced.
So, for the next several days I will be offering some advice from 29 years of teaching. Hope you enjoy!
Be sure to be looking on facebook as my "Live" broadcasts will be starting next Tuesday at 7:00 AM EST and every Tuesday thereafter. These are all recorded and available on the O For Tuna page so if you aren't awake or available at 7:00 EST, you can always go check them out - there are already SO many from the past couple years of videos where I share songs, books, activities, and teacher ideas.
So, onward we go! Welcome to the 2022-2023 school year!
Friday, December 31, 2021
Behavior Reboot
Behavior. Say that word to any teacher this school year and you will get a multitude of responses and emotions including hands thrown up in the air, eye rolls, shaken heads, and sighs of frustration, disappointment, and discouragement.
How many of us are feeling the effects of Covid in our classrooms? Every. Single. One of us. And it isn't their fault - it seems we pressed the "pause" button on child development in March of 2020. You have probably seen the meme about the last time our fourth graders had a normal school year - they were in FIRST grade. Our second graders have NEVER had a normal school year. Once back from Remote Learning students came back into schools that tried to make them sit in desks, work in groups, walk in lines, be present, focused, on task, be around other children, with or without masks, and expect no differences. Our students have been impacted by all of this in ways we cannot possibly understand. We can understand what we understand, but we need to understand we will never truly understand. We are not children who have been through what our children have been through.
They are trying to tell us something. Maybe we need to
That means we have more opportunities to show consistent and positive kindness and love, to set consistent and positive boundaries, to figure out how to love on those "prickly" kids, and to help our students be their best selves.
It also means to expect the unexpected.
With the winter break it is now time for a Behavior Reboot in 2022.
With each class:
- Before the class even comes in - are YOU ready? Are your materials close at hand, do you have a backup plan in case the lesson goes sideways? Do you have some pocket songs or books nearby you can sing or read in case that is what the class needs?
- Are YOU centered and focused? I find that closing the door before the children come in the room and taking a 30 second inventory - closing my eyes, taking 3 deep breaths, setting an intention of positivity, care, and kindness, helps me enormously to feel grounded.
- Are YOU prepared to meet the children where they are? If they come in hyped up on sugar are you ready to do the Seven Jumps dance (my next post will be on how I use this dance - it's not the traditional one) or something else to get the wiggles out? This helps in leading them down the path to where we need for them to be. Doing so is purposeful yet playful, and encourages relational teaching and builds community.
Enforcing immediate compliance without time to transition into your class is similar to a prison guard trying to re-establish control during a prison riot and can lead to you and the students being at odds. - Set clear expectations and boundaries. Then set them again. And again. KEEP those lines drawn. What I say is what I mean and what I mean is what I say. The consequence may be different for different children and that is OK- fair and equal are not the same. Part of this is knowing your students and being relational. A child who is trying to get away with behavior is not the same as a child who is acting out of anger or frustration. A child with mental health challenges is not the same as a child who is sneaky and manipulative.
- What is your lesson flow or structure? Children, like adults, thrive with routine and structure. That doesn't mean there is rigidity and inflexibility. Here are some ideas for the first 5 minutes of class. Here are some ideas for the last 5 minutes of class or for when you need an additional quick activity.
- When difficult behaviors happen, don't get in a power struggle. Just don't. It doesn't work for you OR the child.
- Be the investigator - what does this student need? Do they need a chance to feel successful? Do they need to be a helper and turn lights on or off or get things for you in the classroom? Do they need a time out or a time in? Are they overstimulated - Do they need a quick trip to get a drink of water/go to the bathroom? Do they need a side hug or just to be told they are not in trouble or that you care about them?
- Remember we teach children. Say it with me. I teach children. I teach tiny humans. Then say, "I teach tiny humans music." When teachers say, "I teach music" it takes out the human element. We teach music to children, but we teach children first.
- If what you are doing isn't working, put on the investigator/experimenter hat and try something different. Talk to classroom teachers to find out what is working for the class or specific children and try, try again.
- Also, it's important to say we as teachers are going through a lot. A LOT. A LOT A LOT A LOT. Take your mental health as important as you would a serious physical illness. Take a walk, do yoga, get a massage, cry, play piano, sing, journal, see a counselor, talk to someone, ask for a hug. DO the things you need to and don't feel you have fall on your sword as a teacher - you matter, your life matters, your health matters. Teaching is not more important than you. Prioritize your health and well being.
Friday, October 30, 2020
Checking In, Checking Up
My daughter, Caiya, is about to turn 13. With that is all the expected eye rolling, sarcasm dripping from the tongue, and the need for independence. She is an awesome kid- funny, incredibly artistic, and still loves hugs and talks with Mom. She loves to be around us (yay) and is very sweet and tender-hearted, all of which I am incredibly grateful for. Here is some of her amazing art:
Sunday, August 4, 2019
Music Education - Blogs and Podcasts

As we set sail on a new school year, many of us are in our first or second week of school and many others are preparing classrooms for students to enter in the next couple of weeks. Still others are on their final countdown of summer with their last few weeks spent swimming and adventuring.
This summer has been very different than my typical summer - school ended and the next day we left for 2 weeks in Maine, home a week, then my daughter and I went to NYC for a week, home a week and a half then I left for Estonia and the International Music Village, which was ESTonishing (Soili Perkio's word), just got home Monday and I will be in school tomorrow to get my room ready! Not sure I like how little time I have had at home to do my usual re-organizing and relaxing. :)

The best teaching ideas are often borrowed and adapted from others. I have learned so much from watching, listening, and talking to other teachers. There are so many excellent podcasts and blogs with ideas, activities, philosophical discussions, and information that is interesting and helpful! Thankfully, some teacher friends have organized and collated these into single sites that help us navigate and find the ones of most use!
Podcasts
Evan Tobias recently published a HUGE list of podcasts both current and archived. It is well organized and categorized. He also provides a list of ways to listen to podcasts for newbies.

Blogs
Tuesday, July 17, 2018
Why Orff?
They were not only asking why people choose or use Orff Schulwerk but also wanted to know why teachers identify as "Orff/Kodaly/Gordon/Dalcroze/Music Learning Theory/Feierabend" specialists.
Part One of this I wrote last year: Check it out here.
Find Your Tribe
“Call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it a family: Whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need one.” — Jane Howard, Margaret MeadI think it is basic human psychology to identify with a group of like-minded people. When you find your "tribe", there is a sense of belonging, kinship, and sense of community. Add in the language that is specific not only to teaching music, but the language of the approach or methodology and the kinship/community/friendship/ support/connection is powerful as we see not only how our students are impacted, but how we are impacted professionally and personally. Some of my deepest and most impactful friendships are with other music teachers who live and teach in other states. We might only see each other once a year at the Orff National Conference. These are my "go to" people; I highly respect them professionally and enjoy their impact not only on music education and the Orff community, but also value their friendship. The first moment I attended an Orff workshop I found "my tribe" and knew these were like minded, creative, artful, and artistic musicians.
Orff Schulwerk
There are many common misconceptions I often hear -"It is a methodology". Nope- it is an active and creative approach to developing musical understandings in every learner through the integration and development of music, movement, speech, and drama.
"It's all about the instruments and I don't have any". Nope! At its core, teaching with the Orff Approach is based on the way children learn- through PLAY! Students imitate, explore, improvise, and create as they grow and develop. Students use their bodies, voices, and classroom instruments. The "Orff instruments" - pitched percussion instruments (glockenspiels, xylophones, and metallophones) are used to create accompaniments but are "nice, not necessary".
"Orff is focused on folk dancing." Nope! The Orff Approach focuses on student centered creativity, speech, singing, improvisation, creative movement and so much more! I happen to love folk dancing, and it is a part of creative movement. Folk dancing involves movement, provides opportunities for creative physical responses to music and acts a scaffold on which students can build expressive movement language.
"The focus is not on sight singing." Right, and Wrong! There is not a singular focus in Orff Schulwerk. Elements of the Kodaly and Dalcroze methodologies are also a part of the Orff Schulwerk. Personally, I think the Kodaly sequence of "prepare, present, practice" approach aligns beautifully with the "imitate, explore, improvise, and create" approach of Orff Schulwerk. Students become artistic, expressive, and creative musicians who develop their personal musicality and expression. Many of us have come to embrace the quote, "Speak, sing, dance, and play in a tuneful, beatful, artistic way.". I love this!
So, what is Orff? Here is a 2 minute video that does a great job explaining in a more visual and auditory way!
Want a little more?
Here is a little longer video (7 minutes) that shows a classroom in action.
Workshops vs. Levels Courses
Workshops are a great way to experience Orff, and just like any workshop, clinicians offer a variety of activities and experiences. The subject areas are diverse. Many of my workshops focus on hand clapping games, songs, and dances and children's literature, art and music activities. If you are new to the Schulwerk, try going to at least four different workshops to experience the diversity of subjects and teaching styles. For a list of chapter workshops that might be near you, check out the AOSA page. AOSA is the American Orff Schulwerk Association.Levels Courses
Workshops give you a "taste" of the Schulwerk, but your taste buds haven't fully experienced the full array of flavors! That is what Levels Courses are for! These are certification courses held for two weeks throughout the summer in every region of the US. There are 3 Levels, and a post-Level III, which used to be called "Master's Level". I would strongly recommend taking one level per summer and not trying to "double up" as you need time to let things "sink in" and time to apply your new experiences with your students. Many local chapters also offer scholarships as does AOSA, Here is a list from 2018.
Have more questions?
Drop me a note below. Hope this was helpful!
Tuesday, May 29, 2018
The Top 5 Things I Would Tell My First Year Teacher Self
Teaching is a Marathon, Not a Sprint.
You don't have to do it all in one year, or in the first three, or first five years. For most of us, we don't really "figure out" teaching; content, classroom management, protocols of school, student development, how to deal with those "frequent fliers", political/social/emotional context of school, etc. until about year four or five!Create/make/enjoy five lessons and activities that worked well the first year, add five more the next year. Within four years you will have TWENTY slam dunk lessons and activities. But don't stop changing them - never feel like you are "done" with lessons - always change them to meet the students needs and whatever direction they choose or need to take them.
Get into Orff!
Find a local chapter and get involved in workshops and in the organization. It will change your teaching and the students learning in a beautiful, musical, artful, creative, and wonder-filled way! I didn't really know about Orff until year 6 of teaching! Oh how I wish I had known about it earlier and gotten Levels courses earlier! Open yourself to all the experiences - your teaching and your students will be drastically changed - for good!Be Kind, Then Be Kinder.
Be kind to those teachers who call you "green", or treat you as inferior simply because you are new. You have value, ideas, and strengths to contribute. Be kind to those who come over to slam your door or complain because they placed you next to the reading teacher and she can hear your music. Be kind to the front office staff, the school secretary, cafeteria workers, bus drivers, and the janitors.Their jobs are hard and full of juggling and discouragement. Be kind and then be kinder to students - they are little and someone loves them- yes, even the ones who frustrate and annoy you to beyond the world's end - they are someone's sweetheart, and sadly, if they are not, YOU need to find a way to love on them.Love the Cactus Kids.
Prickly, sticky, mean, grumpy, dirty, matted, annoying, frustrating. Describe any of your students? These are the kids who need you the most- not the perfect singer or dancer, not the kid who can rap like crazy and throw down "beats". The ones who you know are not getting enough - food, shelter, hugs, warmth, affection, and yes, love. What the world needs now is love, sweet love - it's not just a song- it is the sad reason many school shootings have happened. Find a way to make the outcast become part of, not apart from. Love the unlovable and lead by example. You never know what seeds you are planting. A little kindness goes a long way.It's OK, Just Breathe.
Your first year will be stressful - reach out to others for help and advice. There will be very busy times and not so busy times - breathe and ask questions. There is a wonderful network of teachers who are wanting and waiting for you to ask questions. I started teaching pre-internet (dinosaur era) and now teachers have access to thousands of years of experience via facebook and online groups for music teachers. I wish I had spent more time asking what I felt were "stupid questions". Suck up your pride and ask. Stay balanced with a healthy amount of school time and maintain your other "you" - continue to read historical fiction, make jewelry, go antiquing, take walks, perform, etc. Your identity as "music teacher" is not your only identity.
Thursday, July 6, 2017
How to Teach and Not Lose Your Mind
At times teaching music can be particularly overwhelming. Duh, you say. At times you may feel like that poor spud; coming apart at the seams. Oh YES, you say.
Like the beginning of the year when you have hundreds of children's names to learn, or the first concert of the year, or how to deal with all those IEP's or behavior plans. Or holiday concerts; sacred versus secular, or how about recapturing their attention after the holiday break, or what about that one class that consistently misbehaves? And how to integrate technology in a meaningful way? Time management, how do you balance it all? Or how about keeping up with whatever new educational trend your leaders are encouraging/mandating? Project Based Learning, technology integration, differentiation, relational teaching, integration, Maker Space activities, Assessment Models, Gamification, Flipped Classrooms, Autonomous Learning Model, Brain Based Education, and more!
Which can lead us to all feeling like this:
1. Plan, Anticipate, Be Prepared
Plan
Anticipate
Be Prepared
2. Balance
When I first started teaching I gave ALL my energy to the students. I quickly found I had no energy left for anything else. I still struggle with this as I really love what I do. As my sister says, "Everything in moderation including moderation". That is not to say I don't give my all every day, I do, just as there are moments I have to give 110%,. But I also have had to learn to pace my energy levels for each class and not to jump/dance/move with the kids for every lesson when there are 6 classes all doing the same thing that day! Although it is a fabulous workout and gets my workout out of the way, I just end up hot, sweaty, and tired by lunch!I have taught for 24 years and in that time I have had some major life changes; cancer, 14 surgeries, moving from Maine to North Carolina, marriage, adopting from China, 6 more surgeries, knee issues, presenting at workshops and conferences, publishing my first and second books and now working on third and fourth. Oh, and blogging. All of these things were filled with many emotions and all of these were time consuming. I didn't fall into a black hole in the sense they consumed my whole life, but I was able to have balance through most of these life events.
Teaching music is different from many other educational fields in that our jobs are often 24/7; music is pervasive. Whenever we go to a concert//listen to music/go shopping we are analyzing the music and looking to see if that ____ (book, bowl, ball, etc., fill in the blank) can be used in our classroom. Most of us perform in an ensemble or as a soloist outside of school, and music is as much a part of our lives as breathing.
A teacher friend once said, "School is school and home is home". Define in your mind where that line is drawn. Try to NOT work on school outside of school. I know... easier said than done.
When I began this blog it was an extension of teaching music, but it's not school related. I happen to enjoy writing music and sharing lessons and ideas, so while it is music education related, it is not school related and it is something I enjoy greatly! This brings balance to my life.
I also exercise, hike, draw, sew, craft, bake, and ensure that my weekends and summers are not filled with school stuff; I have found I need summers and weekends "OFF". That means while I enjoy children, I do not teach Sunday school at church or summer camps at my school. I indulge in binge watching Orphan Black or Odd Mom Out, read books that are not about education, usually Dean Koontz or thrillers, travel, hike, watch movies, and enjoy my family.
Find other things you enjoy and ways to become involved in those activities; recharge your batteries and leave some energy in reserve at the end of your teaching day so you can find your balance and be
Tuesday, November 22, 2016
Why I Teach Music Blog Hop Giveaway Winners!
1. "I can't believe I get paid to sing, dance, and play games all day!
2. "I also teach music so I can continue to live out my childhood in the experiences I have with my students in the classroom. It definitely keeps me young and fuels my creative side!"
3. "On my hardest, most frustrating days, I close my door and focus on those amazing little kids in front of me. Their smiles, laughter, wonder, and silliness feed my soul in a way nothing else does!"
OH, I couldn't agree more!! There were so many more wonderful posts! Thank you everyone for sharing your words of inspiration. I am smiling inside and out! Here is a picture of all the giveaway items!! Check it out!!!
On to the winners! The winner of my (insert prize here) is (drumroll please) CHRISTY GIBSON!! Here are the other blogs involved in the blog hop: http://www.sallysseaofsongs.com/2016/11/whyiteachmusic.html
http://singplaycreatively.blogspot.com/2016/11/why-i-teach-music-blog-hop-and-give-away.html
http://mrstanenblatt.blogspot.com/2016/11/why-i-teach-music.html
http://floatingdowntheriverontheohio.blogspot.com/2016/11/why-i-teach-music-blog-hop-and-giveaway.html
http://www.singtokids.com/2016/11/why-i-teach-music.html
http://caldwellorganizedchaos.blogspot.com/2016/11/whyiteachmusic.html
http://www.musicteachingandparenting.com/becoming-music-teacher/
There were seven other winners too! If you see your name below, check your email (the one you used to enter) for a message about your prize! Music with Mrs. Tanenblatt : Dan Leopold Floating Down the River (Linda): Jenny Trites Sing to Kids (Jennifer): Becca Fiscus Sing Play Creatively (Sandra): Brooke Chamberlain Music Teaching and Parenting (Maria): Blanca InezSuzanne Fleischmann Bishop Sally's Sea of Songs: Erin Scharman Middelhoven Organized Chaos (Elizabeth): Michaela Gibbons
I hope you have found some fresh energy to keep you motivated through the busy holiday season and into the new year. I'm so grateful to have this community of music educators to support and encourage one another!















